Stuff we feel neutral about: Chicken pot pie. But one thing you shouldn't have a take-it-or-leave-it attitude towards is tongue action. Oral is the form of sex that the majority of women say is most likely to give them an orgasm, says sex therapist Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First. Put these tips. Oral often gets bundled along with kissing and stroking as a form of foreplay, but because it's so intense, you actually need to warm up before he heads south of your border. Since men tend to get aroused faster than women, his instinct will probably be to start pleasuring you within 90 seconds of hitting the sheets, but stave him off by extending the time you spend touching, licking, nibbling, and talking dirty to each other.

Skip navigation! Story from Sex. The only thing more satisfying than being on the receiving end of great oral sex is knowing that you did a great job performing it on your partner. To give is to receive, if you will. Every sexual partner has different taste — literally and figuratively — and when you figure out exactly what your partner likes, it can be intensely gratifying.

Penis-in-vagina sex is not the be-all-end-all of sex. Oral sex can be just as pleasurable — if not more so — than penetrative sex. You know whose genital juice tastes like cookies and cream?

Oral sex is often lauded as the cherry on top of the orgasmic cake for both parties involved: an act of vulnerability and utter release, "I'll have what she's having! But for some women? It's simply not that enjoyable , especially when receiving oral inspires thoughts like I wish I showered today.